How Can I Feel Depressed? I Have A Good Job And A Loving Family.

Anthony’s comment:    

It seems it would make sense to examine your daily routines  to see if indeed problems do exist. It is also important to be  evaluated for a medical condition as a cause of the depression.  Psychiatrists routinely consider the possibility of medical conditions as a cause and may recommend a medical workup. I  have often been surprised myself when I learn about a famous  person, for example, who admits to having taken antidepressants, who seems to me to “have it all.” I may even wonder,  “what’s your problem?” when in fact this shows what appears  on the surface to be an admirable life often has many other  unknown aspects to it.     

As noted previously here, depression is not a condition  that depends solely on a person’s life circumstances.  Certainly, stressful situations such as loss of job, family  problems, or relationship difficulties can trigger the  onset of a depressive episode. However, a lack of obvious stressful circumstances does not make a person  invulnerable to becoming depressed. This can make it  difficult sometimes for others to understand, because  they may think, “What do you have to be depressed  about?” The depression may be viewed as a lack of   personal willpower.

You may feel guilty about being unhappy, and again, the idea of needing to “pull myself  together” becomes part of your thinking. These  thought patterns could impede initiation of treatment.  With that said, sometimes when there are no obvious  external stressors present, there may be “internal” ones.  Perhaps you feel like a failure for not having reached  certain goals. Perhaps an unrelated event has triggered  fears and anxieties that now fuel a depressive episode.  These are potential avenues to be explored in a therapy,  to help with recovery, and to maintain remission.